L is Leaves, Pumpkins and Cool Air, Oh My!

L is for Leaves, Pumpkins and Cool Air, Oh My!  It is finally fall!  It still gets hot from time to time (we're talking spikes into the 90s still), but for the last couple of weeks, we have been fairly mild and our highs have generally been in the 80s and some mornings, we have even woken up to 50s! With it being October, it was time to visit the pumpkin patch as we do every single year.  This is where I always snap their fall pictures and I haven't missed a year yet - except when my oldest was 2 weeks old, but yeah... that just wasn't going to work out.  So we snagged my niece and we hopped on down to the local church pumpkin patch.  We went for an old-time farm feel this year and I think they turned out nicely!  I even managed to get one of all 3 of my boys and my niece looking at the camera! Success!  There are SO many wonderful events we do in the month of October (and November, so be on the lookout for all the Harvest celebration then!) and I always end up with an onslaught of pictures this time of year.  Aside from the pumpkin patch, we also visited Bellingrath Gardens for their Annual Balloon Glow in the Gardens, something we have done for 3 years now.  It was a crazy mess, but we will continue to go because the boys enjoy it so much.   It's a giant trunk or treat inside the gorgeous grounds of Bellingrath Gardens, which is a large, year-round botanical garden.  We are hopefully going for their Christmas in Lights this year too!  We hit a few snags this year, though - traffic was terrible.  We waited in traffic for over an hour, we had to park at the entrance and walk a mile each way... and there was lots of whining, out of all 4 kids (I have taken to grabbing my niece and taking her along whenever I can since her dad works long hours and is exhausted on the weekends.  It's the least I can do to help out - my boys love her and she gets to go, it's a win-win all around.) so by the end, I was just done.  All 3 of my boys ended up grounded for their behavior at the restaurant following the excursion and they are just now getting ungrounded by cleaning their rooms - which is no small task.  We have more events coming up this week, but I will likely include them with the Halloween post.

L is for Laser Tag.  Report cards came in this week and to my relief, I found two perfect report cards from my two kids.  Apollo had straight A's and S's in PE and Behavior.  So off we went to go play laser tag as our local laser tag place offers a free session for straight A's.  It was just Apollo versus Orion and though he lost (Orion has played lots of times before), Apollo had a ton of fun!  Afterwards, we headed off to Moe's Southwest Grill for a celebratory dinner (LOTS of queso and chips were consumed by the boys!) and then to Kripsy Kreme to redeem their report card rewards there - a free doughnut for every A!  Needless to say, the family had dessert and then the boys had doughnuts for breakfast the next morning!  I love that our local businesses offer these rewards - it really pushes the kids to succeed!

L is for Laundry, as in the dirty kind.  I am not normally one to blast my personal struggles and annoyances.  Sure, I allude to the situations enough for those close to me to correlate the publicly stated frustrations back to a private occurrence, but this time... this time the dirty laundry is flying.  Because this time... it directly affected Apollo and very deeply.  Deeply enough that it took nearly an hour to pull him out of the emotional shut down that was caused by his father.  His largely absent father.  I won't comment on what I really think, but his "parenting" (and largely, his lack thereof) has always irritated me and caused me to not trust him.  But his poor decisions this time drove the final nail in the coffin of Apollo ever having a meaningful relationship with him.  My oldest just had his 7th birthday and it went very well - he got lots of fun things that he has been graciously sharing with his brothers, we went out to eat, there was lots of cake... it was overall enjoyable.  Then it arrived.  The overnighted package from his father.  A box full of crumpled up wrapping paper, a torn card and a birthday gift for Orion - with only a matching cup for Apollo and Phoenix.  Why is this an issue, you ask?  Because their father didn't send Phoenix anything in March for his birthday, nor did he send Apollo anything for his birthday in May.  He didn't even acknowledge they existed.  At the time, there was no contact between my kids and their father (same father for all 3 of my boys), but their birthdays came and went and nothing.  They haven't seen him in person in 18 months and have been talking on the phone with him since July for around 30 minutes a week - it's all they can handle.  Apollo will sometimes talk to him and sometimes he won't.  So a month ago, when he asked my oldest what he wanted for his birthday, I sent along a message to him that he needed to also send something for Phoenix and Apollo's birthdays that he missed.  He chose not to and when my oldest (my sweet, blond headed little ball of empathy) questioned his father on why he didn't send them something too when he wanted him to, their father replied that Phoenix and Apollo didn't get gifts because they didn't talk to him on the phone.  A harsh enough blatant statement of manipulation, but even worse?  Apollo was standing in the doorway and heard it... so then when his father didn't ask to talk to him and hung up without even acknowledging he was there (Apollo usually doesn't speak to his father... he's not good on the phone with anyone, especially people he doesn't know), Apollo burst. This was his most dramatic meltdown in MONTHS - he was screaming hysterically, tears were flowing everywhere and I couldn't even get him to tell me what was wrong.  My mother had to pull him out of it this time... that's when you know it's bad.  He usually comes out for me... so I don't know what is going to come of this going forward as it just happened yesterday, but when the weather clears (we're getting remnants of Patricia here...) I am going to contact Apollo's therapist because we may need an emergency session to make sure that Apollo realizes that there isn't a single thing he did wrong, because right now, his little heart is shattered that he doesn't seem to matter as much as his brother.  Which couldn't be father from the truth... not to people who love him and certainly not to his brother.  Orion is pretty upset over the whole thing too...

N is for Neurotypical

N is for Neurotypical.  This is a term that you hear a lot once join the Autism community.  Neurotypical is what an average person is - their brain functions as expected.  Apollo is NOT Neurotypical.  That's not necessarily a bad thing.  In some ways, it's a blessing.  In other ways, it's a curse.  It is amazing to watch Apollo figure things out.  You can almost see the little gears in his head whirring away at speeds that would give you whiplash if you could really see them.  He takes complex problems and figures them out like they were nothing.  Yet, it is also a curse.  This same methodical processing can be all-consuming.  If he sets his mind to a task, he has to complete that task at all costs.  Obviously, this can be a great thing when he is trying to put together a puzzle, or complete his homework, or figure out a problem.  It can be debilitating to him when he is expected to do something not on his to-do list.  It is even worse when the task he focuses on is dangerous to his (or someone else's) well-being or would be otherwise damaging to himself or his surroundings.  When Apollo is in the first situation, he is a virtuoso completing the most gorgeous symphony (or one day he will be!  While this child LOVES music, he needs some work on tone and especially volume control.  For that matter, he needs some guidance on appropriateness and timing as well.  But those will come in time.).  When Apollo is forced to face the latter two situations, he becomes difficult at best and downright impossible at times.  His entire frame of mind goes into panic mode and he shuts down all emotions except utter distress.  You can see it come over him - his eyes blank out, he sets his jaw, balls up his fists and slams them against his ears... and then... he bursts. 

N is for New.  We have shifted his medication back to night time to aid in focus in the mornings as he is still having trouble getting ready in a timely manner.  This is actually a problem for both of my school-age kids.  Orion is slow to focus and his mind jumps everywhere BUT where he needs to be.  Apollo can't pull himself out of his intense focus on one task to complete a series of tasks.  It's frustrating, but we're getting there.  Giving him one of his medications at night causes it to peak in the morning when he is getting ready and gradually fade over the day.  Since he is taking a second medication in the mornings and afternoons to aid with his focus, this seems to be working.  I am anxious to get him off of the double-dose medicine and onto something extended release like his brother.  However, that change cannot come until he turns 6, so for now we are stuck at an impasse.  The doctor won't increase his medications, but with the control of some of his issues, others have made themselves more prominent.  He doesn't melt down as often as he used to, but his melt downs (I should really learn to say shut down, so from here on out, I will refer to his melt downs and shut downs.) are more intensely focused and while easy to predict, they are no easier to redirect.  I am still pushing for testing because something is still causing his distress and the medication isn't addressing it. 

N is for Normal.  Our new normal.  That is learning not only to cope with Apollo's quirks and inevitable moments of total shut down, but also teaching Apollo how to cope on his own.  I haven't had any phone calls from school to let me know of any issues.  He has been routinely bringing home Green faces.  In fact, he has still only had 3 yellows the whole year - and those were from him not sitting in his seat the first two weeks of school.  We have had straight green for 6 weeks now.  His progress report was straight A's.  He loves to read at home, he is infatuated with the calendar and loves teaching math to his little brother (This is the child who taught himself AND my oldest how to add when he was 3 and my oldest was 4.5).  But I am waiting for normal to corrode away and for the quirks to show.  I need for Apollo to be ready to handle life when it doesn't go his way and things are truly out of his control.  For this reason, I am pushing for the testing to go forward.  It is 5 hours of testing to determine if he is on the spectrum and if he is, where he falls.  His therapist has already informed me that he is scary smart and she feels (as do I) that he is likely affected by what used to be diagnosed as Asperger's.  They no longer diagnose Asperger's, but rather the individual is classified as having high-functioning Autism.  I believe there may be more to the puzzle though.  I have suspected Asperger's since he was 3, but I now also suspect Sensory Processing Disorder.  He has found a way to socialize at school - at least I think he has.  He tells me he has friends and he is constantly writing their names and telling me things they do at school.  Whether he is truly friends with them, or whether he is what HE consider to be friends doesn't matter at this point.  But he still doesn't act appropriately in a lot of situations.  He is awkward and goofy and scary smart - this is the part of Apollo that screams Asperger's and thus, the Autism Spectrum.  But he overacts to outside stimuli like thunder, bright lights, weird sounds, being too hot or cold, things touching him and being touched by strangers.  These things in any capacity (and it differs) can send him into a complete tailspin and ruin his entire day.  And yet, some things that SHOULD upset him don't - like when he cut his leg.  He was completely chill where a "normal" child would be screaming their head off and likely would have had to be sedated.  Pain and physical discomfort don't seem to bother him - he is always putting his shoes on the wrong feet.   This part of Apollo screams Sensory Processing Disorder.  And he isn't being treated for EITHER with his medications.  He is being treated for ADD.  However, there is new research to show that SPD can successfully mask itself as ADD or ADHD in a lot of children who may also be suspected of being on the Autism Spectrum.  So even though Apollo appears to be a really complicated enigma of quirks, he may actually be quite normal when all the pieces are considered are treated appropriately.  Maybe not Normal as a dictionary would define it, but really quite normal when all is said and done and the puzzle is complete.

Q is for Quiet

Q is for Quiet.  That is what it has been for the last few weeks.  Apollo started Kindergarten over a month ago and for the most part, we have had a very quiet year.  Apollo has had his share of meltdowns - we still have at least one or two major meltdowns a week and usually over the weirdest things, but we used to battle eyes-go-blank, body-goes-rigid, nothing-else-matters meltdowns daily.  I will take one or two a week.  They are less severe too, which is a relief.  We have found that the most effective method of combating his meltdowns is to remove him from the situation and wrap him in a tight hug to calm him down.  The other biggest a-ha moment we had was to institute 'Quiet Time' which is a mandatory 45 minutes period immediately following school.  The boys change out of their uniforms and go lay down in their beds until 4 o'clock.  It has helped tremendously to prevent major meltdowns, especially between the older two.  They are tired and their patience is thin when they get home from school - the mandatory rest period gives them a chance to reset their systems and "let the day melt away."

Q is for Quick.  This is the rate at which Apollo has assimilated into school.  I fully expected the transition to school to be a long, arduous process full of lessons learned and requiring a LOT of patience.  It has actually been quite the opposite.  In those first two weeks, Apollo brought home 3 yellow faces - and has brought home straight green faces ever since.  He loves his teacher and seems to be able to get around school without getting lost.  He even has friends.  My little boy... the one who only ever played with two children that weren't related to him... has friends.  And yes, that is plural!  He tells me daily about his friends and what they did today at school.  I have noticed a trend in that most of his friends are girls.  Perhaps it his distrusting nature of males in general. (He's okay with family members, but he has always gravitated towards women.)   Maybe it is the little girls' naturally empathetic nature that he is drawn to.  Or maybe he is playing up his friendships more than what is truly there.  Regardless, he has adjusted to school at a rate I never thought possible.  He likes school, he's doing well - his progress report was straight 100s.  He has even ridden the bus by himself on a day when Orion had a doctor's appointment in the morning! Now if we could just get his speed of walking to be quick.... because he moves like a turtle...

Q is for Quirky.  This has become our constant.  Apollo is quirky.  There is no other word for it and no other way to describe Apollo, but quirky.  There are things that send him into a complete tizzy that wouldn't make another child blink and then 20 minutes later, he just shrugs at something that would make another child wail.  I try to avoid the word normal because really... what IS normal?  Certainly not my child - but then, none of my children are "normal."  I don't want normal.  I wouldn't know what to do with normal.  I wouldn't understand normal.  I am used to quirky.  And I wouldn't have Apollo be any other way - even if he has a meltdown because his covers aren't the right way, or his dinner didn't taste like he expected, or you looked at him wrong.  He has his quirks, but they make him who he is - a sweet, wonderful little boy with some strange behaviors that sets him apart from the rest of the world.  He is completely attached to me, but he is facing down the big, bad real world out there like a champ!

K is for Kindergarten

K is for Kindergarten. Sweet little Apollo has started Kindergarten!  He was super excited to go to school with his big brother and so far, so good.  I took both boys to school on the first day to help make sure they could find everything and that they knew where to go.  Orion went to Pre-K, so he was a little more prepared when he started Kindergarten, but Apollo actually handled it like an old pro.  The boys ate breakfast, I walked Apollo down to class, he sat down at his desk and basically told me to go after less than 5 minutes.  I had expected him to want me to hang around for a little bit so that he could transition to the new surroundings.  But he seamlessly transitioned over without a single tear, no meltdown and a simple kiss goodbye and it was done.  I left before 8:20 and he made it to his classroom at 8:10.  I kept expecting the school to call to tell me that he was in meltdown mode and couldn't be calmed down, but nothing.  I worried for WEEKS for nothing.  I don't know how well he is getting along with his classmates, but he really likes his teachers and is bringing home mostly green faces, with a few yellows.  He even memorized his lunch number by day two and can tell me the names of the his classmates that sit beside him (Amorette) and across from him (Chase) which is an amazing improvement already over his normal social skills.  Maybe this won't be such a rough adjustment for him after all.

K is for Kickoff.  Along with the start of school, I have begun a new rewards system to try to curtail some of the chaos in the house.  I am over doing every single chore that needs to be done, and the boys are big enough to help.  I have implemented a ticketing system where the boys earn tickets for good behavior and doing tasks around the house.  Then at the end of the month, they can either turn their tickets in for cash or for an outing somewhere - like Pete's Party Castle, Skating, Chuck E Cheese, Laser Tag, etc.  There are some that are easy - doing their homework earns them 1, getting a good behavior grade at school earns them 2, checking the mail earns 1, etc.  Some are more difficult and pay at a much higher rate - 5 tickets for a load of laundry or cleaning the toilet, 3 for bringing up the trash cans, 4 for helping to cut the grass, etc.  It isn't a perfect system, but the boys do ask what they can do around the house to earn tickets.  Yes, they are being rewarded for doing something that has to be done, but at their age... it's just nice to have them asking to help out.  And they DO go out of their way to ask to do chores, so I am going to call this one a win.

K is for Ketchup.  Seriously.  Apollo wants ketchup for everything - hot dog, hamburger, french fries, chicken nuggets, grilled cheese... I guess it could be far worse, but it's just a little weird.  If it comes down to it, he might even start asking for ketchup on his spaghetti instead of pasta sauce.  We do not serve 'Sketti' in this household and I just can't bring myself to do it.  The real downside is how much he uses.  This child can use an insane amount of ketchup on anything.

K is for Karma. So the other night, I was laughing to my mom that I have made it 6.5 years with 3 boys and no serious injuries requiring an emergency room visit.  I should have known better because the day after saying this, my oldest son kicked an old picture frame and lacerated his shin.  His wasn't too serious, but it shattered our streak and off we went to the ER where, after 4 hours and 5 stitches later, we were repaired and on our way home.  While there, I mentioned to the nurse how glad I was that it wasn't Apollo in the ER because he goes into full meltdown mode over the littlest scrape.  Flash forward 3 days to Friday night.  I am helping Orion do homework he forgot to do, Phoenix was taking a nap, and Apollo was in the office with my mom, playing on the tablet.  Orion and I are getting down to the final questions and I hear my mom call me from the office.  As I turned the corner to go back there, I see her half-carrying Apollo out of the office, saying, "Apollo did it too... I don't know how, but he cut himself..."  I looked down at Apollo and saw lots of blood and asked, "Is it bad?"  And my mom just nods, "Very..."  My stomach dropped to the floor and I ran straight for the phone to call 911.  The whole phone call is a bit of a blur now and I have no idea how I held it together.  My mom is the real hero though as she threw Apollo on the couch and held the huge cut on his inner thigh together with a towel until the paramedics arrived.  Thankfully, the cut occurred in a place on his thigh with no major arteries and it looked much worse than it was.  Well, that's not necessarily true because it was a VERY bad cut - 7 inches long and about an inch deep.  Apollo was taken by ambulance to the ER and I met them at the hospital.  My child was a freaking rock-star.  He was calm, quiet and content the ENTIRE time - almost.  He screamed bloody murder loud enough for the whole hospital to hear when they were injecting the numbing drugs to stitch him up.  It took 19 stitches to repair his leg, but nothing internal which is flabbergasting to me - you could see his bone! They had to put two different drugs into his leg to get it somewhat numb, but he felt most of the stitches.  Hopefully, he will never do anything like that again!  We are not totally sure, but seeing as he cut himself on the SAME picture frame Orion did, we suspect that to a degree he was trying to be like his big brother and get some extra attention.  Needless to say, that picture frame is gone. He is healing up well and is out of PE for 10 days, but otherwise you'd never be able to tell he's seriously injured.  He is back in rock-star mode. He hasn't needed Ibuprofen since Saturday morning and he is trying to get up and convince us to let him play Mario Kart Wii - with 19 stitches.  *sigh*  Boys... I am HAWKING Phoenix to make sure he doesn't get any bright ideas - at least everything in the house is bolted to something else... I do have pictures of the wound pre-fix but it is graphic, so I will only post the fixed version...

R is for Revelry

R is for Revelry.  We had the opportunity to open up the water park on a nice day last week.  It was clear outside, but not too terribly hot as it has been for weeks.  We have 5 seasons here on the Alabama Gulf Coast - Spring (February-March), Summer (April-June), High Summer (July-August), Burnout (September-October), and Fall (November-January).  This week, it has been in the low 100s PLUS humidity which makes it simply what we like to call "stupid hot" which means if you're out in it without a dang good reason, you're stupid.  We had to make some minor revisions to the water slide as the original design had some flaws that were difficult to correct as it was assembled.  Thankfully, a storm disassembled the bottom portion with problems for us and I was able to do some minor modifications and now we have a fully functional, issue-free slide!  We had to shorten it by about 5 feet, but the kids still get plenty of slide and with the newer pool replacing the old one (same storm was kind enough to pop it for us), the retaining pool at the bottom holds more water.  It also means one less pool to fill since we no longer use the family pool as an actual pool.  Win-win for everyone since it takes way less time to set up (win for me) and they can do it more often (win for them).  Even though school starts back this month, water activities can continue here well into October, so we have at least 2 more months of enjoyment with the modifications and then I have an idea to turn it into a skate park of sorts for the (very) brief "fall" season.  I call it fall because it rarely gets below 40, although it has been known to dip into the negatives for short periods of time.  But we just don't get snow.  It doesn't even turn cool until November and if it DOES snow, the entire city shuts down for a week, so there is no sledding to speak of - their slide may prove useful as a sort of sledding hill with a wheeled sled.

R is for Really Cool.  Which is what Apollo called the Blue Angels when we visited Pensacola to watch them practice their air show.  It was a dreary, rainy day and we got soaked watching the practice, but with the help of some noise-cancelling headphones, Apollo was really able to enjoy the show.  He was definitely startled when the first plane took off right in front of us and he jumped when the soloist did a low flyby that boomed loud enough to shake the bleachers, but overall, he handled it very well and we didn't have a single meltdown, even though it was extremely loud and I worried a bit about having to leave early with him.  He was anxious and squirmy before the show started and got to be irritating after the show, but during he was mesmerized and kept telling me "This is SO cool! This is the best thing EVER!"  Due to the rain, we only got to see the low show and the really low show, so I would like to take him back sometime to see the high show on a clear day because he is going to be completely blown away by the mega-loop the Blues do in the high show.  Afterwards, we waited in line (the beginning of the defiance) to meet 4 of the Blue Angels pilots and while he hated waiting in line, he was eager to give them high fives and tell them his name is Apollo, A-P-O-L-L-O. He had several outbursts inside the Naval Aviation Museum while we visited and he was forced to sit out on quite a few activities (he almost didn't get to sit in a Blue Angel cockpit because of his behavior!), but overall, for Apollo, he was pretty good.  He, my niece, Orion and Phoenix were so well-behaved inside McDonald's that a total stranger paid for them all to get an ice cream cone when they were done because he was SO impressed with how well-mannered they were.  I guess I didn't completely notice because I was eating instead of trying to separate two of them, or putting one back in his chair, or picking food up off the floor, or giving out final warnings.  I got to have a glimpse of the normalcy that I left behind the day I became a mother and it was refreshing - especially since they haven't yet mastered the art of the ice cream cone lick-down, so I had to do it for them.

R is for Rebel.  Apollo had a super great day and managed to clean his room completely after only being told twice to do so.  This is a MAJOR accomplishment (for any kid really) and he was greatly rewarded, but I secretly HATE his good days.  I know that sounds incredibly brash and terrible and I don't really "hate" them - I hate what follows.  Every time he has a really great day, I cringe waiting for the other foot to fall because he ALWAYS follows a really great day with 2-5 really bad ones.  The last big issue was him pooping his pants for 5 days in a row in defiance.  This time, his defiance has reared its ugly head in the form of him throwing himself on the floor every chance he gets, any and every where he goes and refusing to get up without being dragged.  I took him to order a replacement pair of glasses since he has now broken TWO pair in less than 2 months and while the break on the newest pair (we've had them a week, folks!) was repairable, Medicaid will no longer cover any glasses for him until NEXT May.  It is August, and the beginning of August at that.  So we went to Wal-Mart to order him another pair of inexpensive glasses that carry a break guarantee so we can get them replaced at no charge when he breaks them.  Notice the lack of the word "if"?  I know he will break them.  He is rough and careless which is a terrible combination.  Back to the point of his rebellion... he also needed some uniform pieces for school and I had a few coupons, so we headed to the mall.  I don't mind the mall by myself, or with a child in a stroller or with my oldest... but Apollo makes it SO incredibly difficult.  He is too big to go in a stroller without the judgey looks and I just wasn't in the mood to deal with the looks.  He is too little to be expected to walk easily beside me.  No, he is the one I end up dragging and he whines that his hand hurts because he is dragging his feet (or more!  He often flops to his knees and refuses to budge) and I am dragging him.  Every store we went into, he flung himself on the ground and whined that he was tired (it was 10 AM!) and I nearly stepped on him more than once because he tried to shove his head in between my feet.  By the time we got the needed items, I was furious and we still had to go to Wal-Mart to order his glasses!  Needless to say, Apollo and momma BOTH got an early bedtime that day!

R is for Ready.  As in for Kindergarten.  As in my sweet little Apollo starts Kindergarten on August 10!  Ahhhhhh!  Where has the time gone?!?  Just yesterday, he was a fat little red faced alien baby that took 51 hours to make his grand appearance.  Now he is 5 and a sassy little thing who can light up a room, but sometimes he shines too bright for most people and he can be a lot to handle on an extended basis.  He gets into his moods where he slips off into his own little world, ignoring everyone and everything and if he isn't interested in you or what you have to say, it's best to leave him alone.  Otherwise, we end up in meltdown territory if you try to pull him back into reality.   We took him to school to meet his new teacher and drop off his school supplies, figure out everything and get acquainted and the entire hour and a half we were there was utter misery for me. Apollo rolled around on the floor, chased another kid around the Kindergarten room (yay for making friends!), lost his backpack within 5 minutes (we did find it), burst into tears over something (I still don't know what, he just blubbered in my face), almost knocked a kid down, ran into 2 adults, ran screaming around the cafeteria and interrupted Orion's teacher while she was talking to a parent.  It is going to be an interesting year...

R is for Rock.  As in moon rock. We have been members of the Gulf Coast Exploreum Science Center for about a year and a half now and we have gotten to see and do many fun scientific things including seeing live penguins, seeing real dinosaur eggs and fossils, seeing inside the human body and learning about the upcoming Journey to Mars, whose launch vehicle happens to be called Orion.  Of course, as a family, we are excited that the Exploreum is currently home to a space exhibit, so when they announced they were having a special day with NASA, we were SO there.  Today's "NASA Lands at the Exploreum" was so much fun for the kids and even Apollo had a pretty good day.  They got to try on a real spacesuit, touch that (real!) moon rock, see a life-size inflatable of the Orion capsule and we even got to meet the Space Launch System Manager from Marshall Space Center in Huntsville where the US Space and Rocket Center is located (who just so happen to accept our membership reciprocity! Can someone say vacay?!?).  The NASA people were amazed to hear the boys' names - Orion, Apollo and Phoenix are all names of space programs.  I let someone who works at the Exploreum know their names and the news spread like wildfire and before we knew it, we had requests from the museum director for a picture with the kids AND the SLS Manager wanted a picture - and NASA retweeted it!  It was an awesome feeling to be treated like celebrities for an afternoon and I have a couple of potentially useful contacts once the boys are older and able to attend Space Camp! Orion even got a pin from one of the NASA people whose business card I gratefully accepted!  Now we are ALL looking forward to our February trip to Huntsville!

M is for Moo

M is for Moo.  Yes, I am talking about cows - as in, the Chick-Fil-A cows.  Every year, Chick-Fil-A hosts 'Cow Appreciation Day' and it has become our little tradition to get dressed up like cows and go share lunch as a family.  We have been doing it since 2011 and the boys look forward to it as much as I do because Chick-Fil-A is typically spendy and with 3 kids who can eat like adults, it can cost a small fortune to eat there.  The boys were one of the highlights of the store while we were there, which was fun.  They took pictures with Mr. Cow, "Moo"d at everyone who looked at them and would only answer to 'Eat', 'More', or 'Chicken' for the rest of the day.  That would be because they had signs that said 'Eat', 'Mor' and 'Chik'n' when they were dressed up as little calves. Everyone had grilled nuggets, fruit and lemonade for lunch and then (at another location!) had chicken strips, fries and chocolate milk for dinner.  My only complaint is that Cow Appreciation Day falls in July every year and it is blasted hot in July!

M is for Mackeral.  And bass.  And salmon.  And trout.  And all the other kinds of fish the boys learned about today at Bass Pro Shops' Family Summer Camp.  We only managed to make it to two of the workshops due to Apollo's inability to sit still and constant demand to talk over the lay hosting the workshop.  We made it to the Archery and Fishing "camps" though and the boys thoroughly enjoyed what they were able to complete.  From there, we explored Bass Pro Shops and managed to waste another hour just looking at everything inside - there are two enormous fish tanks that mesmerized Apollo and we had some lovely fish photobombs too!  Outside, they had cute little crafts the boys were able to color - a turkey track magnet and a turtle suncatcher.  They didn't hold Apollo's attention long, but he did manage to get them somewhat colored.  He was more interested with shooting the bow/arrow and casting a fishing pole.  Overall, it was a success for what it was, but I could tell that Orion was disappointed we didn't stay for more.  I did take Orion back later in the camp to complete the rest of the workshops without his brothers.

M is for Maintaining.  Apollo now has a new doctor, as was expected.  Upon observing him, she has decided NOT to up his dosage of Intuniv at this time, due to his age.  Since he is under 6, she does not want to go above the 2 MG dosage, but instead had me change the TIME he gets his medicine.  Instead of taking it at bedtime, as he was before, we are now giving it to him in the morning (and once school starts, he will take it here before he gets on the bus).  So far, I am really not seeing a big difference in his overall behavior.  The biggest accomplishment is that we have cut out Melatonin almost completely.  He still gets it once in a while, but his doctor was concerned with him regularly getting such a high dose.  She didn't recommend we reduce it, but we have managed to get him 80% off of it.  If his behavior starts to tilt back towards the insomniac nights, we will begin it again.  He has a med check on August 20 (along with a dentist's appointment too!) and at that time, his doctor said she does have another medication she can add onto the Intuniv to address his defiance if that does not improve.  

W is for Waterslide

W is for Waterslide.  Last week started out spectacularly - at least for Apollo.  For three days straight, he woke up in a good mood, we didn't have any major incidents and he was the only one to clean his room when he was told to do so.  I even bribed the kids a bit by letting them know I would be opening up the homemade waterpark Saturday afternoon and that if they wanted to participate, they needed to make sure they picked up their rooms.  Really, cleaning their rooms entails picking up their toys, putting the dirty clothes in a pile for me to get and putting all their babies and bedclothes back on their bed.  I don't ask much - after all, they're still little and aren't responsible enough to be perfect little cleaners.  Besides, I don't keep my own bedroom spotless, so I don't expect them to either.  I do, however, expect them to quit dumping all of their toys out onto the floor and expecting me to clean them up.  I am finding that since forcing them to pick them up, there is a lot less dumping.  Not saying it never happens, but it happens less.  Every victory, no matter how small, is still a victory.  Anyway, so Apollo got to do the waterslide all by himself for almost an hour on Saturday.  He had an absolute blast.



W is for World War 3.  It has happened.  War has been declared and the opposing sides are Apollo and I - and the issue at hand?  Pooping in his pants.  Apollo has decided that when I tell him that he can't go to the bathroom again 10 minutes after he last went, it is time to poop in his pants.  It started about two weeks ago and right now, we are on day 4 with no poop.  However, in a week and a half, he managed to poop in his pants 7 times... yes, SEVEN times.  I threw out three pair because they were older hand-me-downs from his brother, but several pair were nearly brand new - and kids' underwear isn't cheap! Finally, out of frustration, I made Apollo clean out the 7th pair... and he cried the whole time.  However, we have now not had another incident.  Hopefully, he learned that that type of defiance isn't going to work in this household.  He absolutely hated cleaning out his underwear because he had to touch the poop.  I did swish them out in the toilet, but he had to finish up in the tub in hot water.  He hates water that is hot, so I am hoping that the fear of having to wash them out again will keep him from pooping in his pants again.